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As humans we naturally seek comfort and connection, often finding these in unexpected places. One of the most powerful and widespread forms of this is idolization of public figures. Celebrities, artists, and athletes become sources of inspiration for many, drawing in fans who cheer them on, support them unconditionally, and find strength through their journey.
Some may view this admiration as “obsessive,” but not everyone has a mentor or family figure to look up to. For many, celebrities can fill a gap, and offer more than just entertainment. They can also offer motivation, stability, and hope to their fans, especially if they are going through a tough time in life. Watching the content of these people can help you even in the times when you feel hopeless and in need of an arm to hold you up. These people aren’t just celebrities, but support systems that help you get through your day to day life.
Some public figures use their platforms to share uplifting messages, advocating for positivity, and motivating their fans to put themselves first. For example, Anne Hathaway, who always makes sure to share body positive messages. These same figures also go out of their way to donate to causes, showing their lucidness and ability to humanize themselves despite being public figures. Ryan Reynolds, had donated one million to the Red Cross on behalf of the children in Palestine. This is why they deserve to be idolized.
There is really nothing wrong when it comes to a little bit of fangirlism. Many younger teens go through this same experience while growing up. It’s better to let them be, as obsession is not the same as idolization. Obsession is the act of not respecting celebrities and their boundaries, and dedicating your own life to a single person who does not know you. Idolization is admiration of an individual you can rely on to uplift your day. Worshiping idols is where we should draw the line, and can cause effects to their own idol life.
Adoring an idol is the same as looking up to a parent, or admiring a teacher we know. There is nothing wrong with letting someone hang up a poster of someone in their bedroom, buying merchandise, and supporting an idol by attending the events they themselves host.
This applies to both genders as well. Idolization is a big thing on each side of the gender spectrum, and can take a big part up of many people’s lives.
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In today’s society, especially due to the rise of the internet and social media apps, it has become common for people to worship celebrities and other notable figures. Singers and actors alike can’t even leave their home without being chaotically swarmed by people, ranging from paparazzi to bandwagons, like a bee’s nest.
Many fail to grasp this concept: famous people are people too. It may be a shock, but they eat, sleep, and have hobbies just like everyone else. Unfortunately, the average superfan can’t comprehend this idea. More often than not these crazed fans invade stars’ privacy, especially when they get a bite to eat or go to their local grocery store.
However, obsessed fans aren’t limited to teenage music fanatics or die hard movie enthusiasts. Grown adults across the globe tune in once a week, if not more, to watch their favorite sports team. If the occasion comes up, said adults would go to great lengths to defend their favorite player, especially on social media. After writing a five paragraph analysis on why this quarterback is that one, these fans lounge back in their recliners and continue to eat multiple servings of Cheetos, which is concerning.
It isn’t healthy to give these figures special treatment or put them on a pedestal like they saved humanity. The people that do need a reality check. The person you admire a worrying amount doesn’t know you exist. Your entire perception of them is only real through a 6-inch piece of glass that is your cell phone, or from behind a television. Ease up.